Helping Kids Cope with Divorce

By Neil Chethik

It’s the season of migration for the children of divorce.

Another year of school behind them, millions of American kids are hauling duffel bags, favorite pillows, and yes, grand expectations, as they flock from Mom’s house to Dad’s. Otherwise ordinary men, meanwhile, are changing their routines, habits, and linens, as they prepare to take on the role of Summer Dad.

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Finding A Kick-Ass Attorney

Eight Rules To See You Through A Rough Time

By Kevin Nelson

Research shows that nine out of ten divorced couples work out arrangements for their children without going to trial. For the ten percent who cannot agree, however, things can get a little dicey. There can be arguments about support payments, visitation rights, and the underlying issues of “custody”–where the children live and whether Mom or Dad is primarily responsible for them.
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When Your Ex Moves

She’s Got The Kids. Do You Fight, Mediate Or Let Her Go?

By Kevin Nelson

Imagine this: You’re a divorced father. The breakup of your marriage was hard, but you got through it and now you’ve achieved a sort of balance in your life. Your children stay at your house a couple of nights during the week and two weekends a month. It’s not perfect, but it’s better than a lot of guys you know and you’re still involved big-time in the lives of your kids, which is what you want.

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